Black men are the cream of the crop. So, it is only right that dating them comes with more than you ever imagined it would. When it comes to love and lust, it can be difficult to ensure that you’re dating someone for the right reasons, but a lot can come with that territory once you bring the matter of color into the mix. Black men are usually characterized as violent and lazy when it comes to media stereotypes or that all of them are gangsters. These facts can make it quite difficult when it comes to dating them. But there are many reasons and benefits why one should consider dating a black man. There are some things you should contemplate before taking the plunge with them. Dating a black man is incredibly rewarding once you break past that tough-guy exterior, you will find the kindest and most giving person you've ever met. Are you ready for the outpouring of love because they are ready to give it?
Before you go on a first date with a black man, consider all of the things that they have to deal with an answer if you can handle it or not. Meaning, can you handle the stares, the stereotypes, the harassment they endure from the police. At first, you may be able to say that none of it will affect you, but once you’re in the situation, it can be very uncomfortable to deal with. Speaking of situations that black men deal with; just a word to the wise: do not defend the police, it won't work out in your favor. Black men are strong and want women that treat them like the kings they are while being strong and independent on their own as well. So when dating a black man, ensure that you can stand on your own two feet and that you bring something more than just looks to the table.
The first benefit of dating black men is their coveted lips. Those plump, juicy, and soft lips. Watching your man speak, laugh, or whisper can have you getting hot under the collar as you gaze at his wondrous lips. Another benefit is that no matter what, you can always guarantee that they will tell it like it is without sugar-coating things. Which could leave you with some hurt feelings at some point, but in the long run, the truth will set you free. They love their mothers, and you know the saying, “How he treats his mother is how he will treat you.” Therefore, if he tries to give his mother the world, you can easily get a glimpse into how you will be treated by him. And lastly, their swagger. There's something about seeing a black man dressed in a suit or just lounging around the house that drives their women crazy. This is because no matter what they wear, they always look amazing and desirable.
There are some tips to dating a black man that will help you ensure a long term relationship.
As we stated earlier, make sure that you bring something more to the table than just your looks. Black men look for women that are intelligent and can carry a conversation on; therefore, it is important to be educated. Also, stay up on your hygiene, meaning keep yourself up whether that be exercising daily, eating properly, or drinking water; just make sure to take care of yourself. The way that they see it is if you can't be trusted to take care of yourself, then how can they expect you to take care of them. You should also know how to cook; it is true that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. And you can guarantee that a black man will compare your cooking to his mothers and will not be very happy if your meals aren't ticking the box in the taste department. Most black men meet women at social clubs, work, bars, through family, and school. And if it helps, black men are looking for committed relationships that will eventually end in marriage.
Dating men of different races are generally the same with a few changes here and there. Understand that a black man will treat you like a queen when they feel thoroughly supported and as though you're treating them like a king. Share in their hopes for the present and future, which lets them know that you are in it for the long haul. Spread love, and you will also receive that love in return. They believe that women are their backbones and will always protect women that will put it all on the line for them. Are you that woman for them? If so, go ahead and go get your man!
